Grief

Yet another friend passes away related to the Covid injected bioweapon; I analyze my grief to comprehend a better understanding of the process I am going through. We bond with relationships, things, routine, and ideas. When the pattern is disrupted, there is a disturbance in The Force Luke! It is a ripping of the fabric we woven to define the structure, net of security and perceived identity we have. But when things, people, ideas, routine, objects cease to be, what do we hang onto for stability? What gives us the strength to go on? What is the solidarity holding us together so we can move forward?

A release of intense emotion is good. Without that, we don’t release the toxic overload of cortisol in our system. Releasing through our tears is one way to get rid of the toxins and rebalance to a homeostatic state. A part of our experience of existence was ripped away. We start the process of redefining our values in the world. This is no easy task. We not only buy into who we were in relation to the person we lost, but now, without that person, we must redefine who we are in relation to our own experience of existence.

You may start to question why your energy went into that lost relation in the first place. What did you learn from the relation that ceased to be? How are you going to fill the void where that relationship is no more? When you are “no more”? How will the disconnection affect the others in your quantum entanglement? How does the loss and intense feelings affect your understanding of the creator of the universe? Do you feel more of a connection of less of a connection to what might await your soul through the veil of our defined existence?

In Chinese Medicine, CV 17 on the sternum is a grief point. It might be tender. You may place a carnosine patch from LifeWave on that point to help ground and rebalance. Perhaps some essential oils, such as Release or Peppermint, might be helpful. A Homeopathic remedy may also help with your grief reaction. As humans, we have the ability to anticipate loss as well. The loss may not have even happened yet, but we can experience anticipatory grief because of our thoughts of what may be the inevitable. It is all part of the rollercoaster of life. You are part of the weeee!!!

Heidi Lobstein MSN, RN 2026